Witnessing learning life

Date & Time: 17th April 2012, Tuesday, 1.21am
Location: My Room
Mood: Pinched
Song Playing: Paramore - Playing God



So...here it is...when you have something to say...say it...but do not be sarcastic...


Get this...People say...it ain't over until the fat lady sings...well...i'm not fat...but i do know how to sing...that's beside the point...no intentions of discrimination but just making a point...Point is of those words...they just meant essentially that one should not assume the outcome of something until it has actually finished...what i'm trying to say is...Just simply...don't assume...you don't know something don't judge...nor spew words that could hurt...


Everyday..is a learning process...learning about life...one that i learnt...there's always 3 sides to every story....THREE...not one...not TWO...but THREE...there's your side...my side...and the truth...don't get me wrong...i ain't saying we have a problem here...i would rather say...we have a setback...maybe...just maybe...truth is...u didnt mean all those words...just something that came out sparked by anger? restlessness..? confusion...? who knows...?only God knows...


Friendship...treaaaaasuuureeee it....we won't know how long we're gonna be walking around this Earth....treasure not just friendship...treasure what is given to u...treasure moments...treasure time...we are always always trying to catch time...catch up with things...stuff like that...we fail to sit back and smile to the times we had with those we care around us...


I'll be straight...i don't know how to play around the bushes...this ain't a story to be gossip...point fingers to each other about...but just something...to remind us...of where we are...who we are..what we are..and how we are...


Where...? we are in the midst of people we care...treasure them..whether they're not in front of us...in the same room with us...just remember them...Who? We are their families, their friends, their husbands, their wives, their daughters, their sons, their fathers, their mothers, their sisters, their brothers, their uncles, their aunts, their cousins, their nephews, their neices, their etc etc etc...we are who we are...to ourselves and to them...What? be the best of what we are to others...How? Look within ourselves...if we miss anyone...tell them...ask about them...don't give up on them...don't hurt them...if things needed to be said...say them...and then move on...if we give up on each other...friendship breaks...it would be better to overlook sometimes their errors or faults...coz reality is...we are also not free from errors or faults...we are...who we are...human...


Yeah yeah...i get it...i understand...what if...they hurt u...well..others may not know what u feel inside...but there's always one who created us that knows....Allah sees everything....remember that...


I may be wrong about whatever i said...don't have to take any of my words for it...do it for yourselves...I apologise for any harshness in my blog entries...


~Shahida~